Meredith: [voice over] At some point you have to make a decision.  Boundaries don't keep other people out; they fence you in. Life is  messy, that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines  or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that  are way too dangerous to cross. Here's what I know, If you're willing to  take a chance, the view from the other side is spectacular.
Meredith: [voice over] Intimacy is a four syllable word for "Here is my heart and soul, please grind them into hamburger, and enjoy." It's both desired, and feared. Difficult to live with, and impossible to live without. Intimacy also comes attached to the three R's... relatives, romance, and roommates. There are some things you can't escape. And other things you just don't want to know.
 
Meredith: [voice over] Intimacy is a four syllable word for "Here is my heart and soul, please grind them into hamburger, and enjoy." It's both desired, and feared. Difficult to live with, and impossible to live without. Intimacy also comes attached to the three R's... relatives, romance, and roommates. There are some things you can't escape. And other things you just don't want to know.
Meredith:  [voice over] I wish there were a rulebook for intimacy. Some kind of  guide to tell you when you've crossed the line. It would be nice if you  could see it coming, and I don't know how you fit it on a map. You take  it where you can get it, and keep it as long as you can. And as for  rules, maybe there are none. Maybe the rules of intimacy are something  you have to define for yourself.
 
Meredith: [voice over] A couple of  hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of  his success. “Never leave that till tomorrow,” he said, “Which you can  do today.” This is the man who discovered electricity. You’d think more  of us would listen to what he had to say. I don’t know why we put things  off, but if I had to guess, I’d say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear  of failure. Fear of pain. Fear of rejection. Sometimes the fear is just  of making a decision, because what if you’re wrong? What if you make a  mistake you can’t undo? Whatever it is we're afraid of, one thing holds  true: that by the time the pain of not doing the thing gets worse than  the fear of doing it, it can feel like we're carrying around a giant  tumor. And you thought I was speaking metaphorically.
 
Meredith:  [voice over] The early bird catches the worm; a stitch in time saves  nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we haven't been told.  We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our  grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging  us to ‘seize the day'. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We  have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have  to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't  anymore, until we finally understand for ourselves like Benjamin  Franklin meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is  better than sleeping. And that even the biggest failure, even the worst  most intractable mistake beats the hell out of never trying.
 
Meredith: [voice over] You know when you were a little kid and you  believed in fairy tales? That fantasy of what your life would be – white  dress, prince charming who’d carry you away to a castle on a hill.
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